There are many reasons why sibling rivalry occur while other kids are lucky enough to become best of friends. But let me tell you that it's actually a natural process for a brother and sister to fight.
It's very stressful and upsetting for a certain household to watch kids yelling and screaming to each other or even throwing things at each other. Most brothers and sisters fight due to a certain degree of jealousy and competition. But there are also other factors that can flare up this rivalry and these includes:
Individual needs -there needs, anxieties or even identities can disrupt the their capabilities to relate to one another. For example, teenagers, are developing a sense of individuality and independence, and might resent helping with household responsibilities, taking care of younger siblings, or even having to spend time together.
Temperaments - it refers to the mood, adaptability and disposition plus their unique personalities play a bigger role on how they get along with one another. A child who is more likely drawn to his/her parents to seek love and comfort can be misinterpreted by the other and in return they also want the same type of attention.
Other needs - like for example, a sick child or a child with emotional issues may require greater parental time. Other kids may pick up on this disparity and act out to get attention also.
role models - the way how parents solve a particular issue or problem sets a strong modeling for kids. So parents should avoid this not so good habits like shouting or slamming the door while angry and even loudly argue because you set as an example for you kids. They may pick up this bad habit of yours.
It's very stressful and upsetting for a certain household to watch kids yelling and screaming to each other or even throwing things at each other. Most brothers and sisters fight due to a certain degree of jealousy and competition. But there are also other factors that can flare up this rivalry and these includes:
Individual needs -there needs, anxieties or even identities can disrupt the their capabilities to relate to one another. For example, teenagers, are developing a sense of individuality and independence, and might resent helping with household responsibilities, taking care of younger siblings, or even having to spend time together.
Temperaments - it refers to the mood, adaptability and disposition plus their unique personalities play a bigger role on how they get along with one another. A child who is more likely drawn to his/her parents to seek love and comfort can be misinterpreted by the other and in return they also want the same type of attention.
Other needs - like for example, a sick child or a child with emotional issues may require greater parental time. Other kids may pick up on this disparity and act out to get attention also.
role models - the way how parents solve a particular issue or problem sets a strong modeling for kids. So parents should avoid this not so good habits like shouting or slamming the door while angry and even loudly argue because you set as an example for you kids. They may pick up this bad habit of yours.
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