To love is the greatest happiness a person can feel in his entire life. A kind of feeling as if time stops by on it's own. Most of us are searching for our soul-mate and hoping that one day we can all have our happy endings. But life as we may put it is unfair. Not all of us is fortunate enough to have a happily ever after story. Tales are different from realities.
Have you ever loved so much but tasted a bitterness outcome? Have you ever give up everything just for the sake of making the relationship work? Well, we need to experience love but being a slave of it is entirely a different dimension. What about love that is slowly fading? How did you deal with it? Well here's a thing, to beg for love is a huge mistake. We don't beg for love because that would be a desperate move. Although the pain of losing someone that we care, other than death of course, is excruciating if I may exaggerate it but we need to let go and we need to endure that pain so that we can learn a lesson from it and start a new beginning. We may ask for a second chance but isn't it right if a chance is given out of mercy. That would be really painful.
I had experience begging for loved and yes I was given a chance but as days passed by I came to realize that even if we are together I can really tell that the person I'm with is just a stranger. I have done crazy things just to contain that person but no matter what I'll do I can never bring back what had been lost. All the while my partner soon showed courage by telling me that the only reason for staying is this thing called "pity". Ouch! what words can be so painful than that! So in the end I let that person go and I move on with my life.
Love your partner as much as you can but if things don't work as what you expected learn to let go, move on and start a new beginning. Don't love too much, spare a little time on loving yourself.
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